After going on another disastrous round of dates, I feel like I should focus on filling my life with fun things instead of trying to find someone who could fit in with my life. I ran out of things to talk about, I mean to be fair he didn't contribute to the conversation, but it made me think about how I am looking for something to add to my life.
One thing is that I've decided that I spend too much time online. To change this, I want to change over from spending time on social media to watching something niche on Youtube. I haven't decided what that is going to be yet, maybe more ocean documentaries. Or watching Youtubers who are actively trying to make their lives better. I think when you surround yourself with people or details that encourage that type of behavior, it subconsciously makes you strive to be better. And that's what I want.
Another detail I have decided to implement in my life is to scroll on Pinterest instead of Tiktok. It's where the 'it girls' get their inspiration for anything.
I also want to read more. I mean, I read enough for school. Those readings aren't helpful for the goal I'm trying to achieve though. And I think I'm going to make an effort to read physical media, not only on the internet. I think it will help my attention span, and I just believe it's almost a lost art. I'm looking for non-fiction books, so if you have any recommendations, let me know!
I also want to find my signature things. My signature perfume or color or symbol. I like a lot of vanilla perfumes, so I think that will be an easy adoption. Lately, I've been loving the Rare Beauty perfume. Something about it makes it so original in my mind. I think the way I'm going to accomplish the other signature things to me, through Pinterest. The goal here is not to find what's trendy. Because trends die out and then become painful to look at. A signature something needs to be original to you. So, it takes introspection to figure out what details really make you, you.
I know this is short, but I plan on adding to this as I figure out more. The picture above is kind of a vision board for this project. I'll keep you updated on my progress and how I'm doing and the things I adopt into my routine. I plan on listing below the details so maybe you could adopt them too!
With love and lightheartedness,
Cici
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